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I just wanted to say you are an awesome person. Your mother tried to break you and hold you in the poverty she chose. She tried to tie you to her, a prisoner to her needs. You used your knowledge to stop her, worked your butt off, and escaped. Now you need to grieve for the I Love It When People Think They’re Going To Punish Me By Not Talking To Me Shirt. You also need to make sure you do not allow your family to keep you in their toxic emotional dysfunction. Please work hard never to be sucked back in by them. If ever you are feeling emotionally vulnerable put as much distance as you can between them and you. Source – I watched my narc ex MIL suck my BIL back into her dysfunctional toxic web.

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He was very nearly free. 20 years later he still lives with her I am told and has had no romantic relationships since. And honestly, the grieving process is much harder if you maintain even limited contact. The perpetual hope that your parent will finally see the I Love It When People Think They’re Going To Punish Me By Not Talking To Me Shirt. I’m low contact with my ill and aging mother – mainly see her for holiday family gatherings or I help her out if she’s had a medical emergency. Every time I see her or talk with her, she tries to suck me back into the caregiver role she groomed me to play out for her. She’s not typically malicious; it’s just become very clear that she lived a life where her needs never got met by her parents or her spouses.

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And she’s acting out that neediness with her adult children now. Every time I have contact with her, I feel like my grieving starts over again. So I’m having to learn how to reframe and accept that she’s not “my mom” the way I would wish her to be. It’s really effing hard to reshape the emotional connection to the person who raised you. Having gone no contact with all my I Love It When People Think They’re Going To Punish Me By Not Talking To Me Shirt. It’s so much easier to go through grieving when you don’t have to keep interacting with them. Oh, yeah, I’ve seen people get sucked back into the Nparent’s web. That’s not happening with me. Her own family doesn’t communicate with her.

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